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I need REAL opinions. Do you think there is a good chance that this is my ex? Thank you.?

Hi. I'm wondering if this could be my ex looking at my page, and I need opinions. I'll pick a best answer :) The actual question is at the end, but first, I jwanted to provide some details about how things ended... I met someone from South Africa over a year ago. I was in love after 6 months of chatting at least 5 hours with him daily. After 10 months, he said he loved me and it had been bottled up. We were so excited and I bought a ticket to see him, and his parents had talked to me about all the things they'd planned for us to do... (I'm in America). He was so loving to me in our phone calls, video chats, when I had surgery, he kept calling my mom to check on me and said "tell sara I love her" etc, then one day, RIGHT BEFORE I was supposed to go there, he coldly ended it. It's now been 4 months, never another word from him. I left facebook, because I couldn't stand being there, and I went back to myspace that he doesn't use. Okay, sorry about all that... ***HERE'S MY QUESTION*** It's not about the "relationship" really but this: I've got an IP tracker embedded in my page. He lives in Johannesburg, Gauteng. Well, the past two days I've had the same visitor from exactly there. In 5 years of having myspace ip trackers, I've never had one SA visitor. Obviously, it COULD be him, or a HUGE coincidence, but I need your opinion on if you think it IS him, and if so, if you think he's only looking out of curiosity?*** Thanks, Sara I want to say thanks to everyone.... this is going to be tough to choose. And for the girl telling me I need to get laid, and she said somewhere else that I need therapy... You are the one who may need it, because relationships and love actually CAN go beyond wanting sex. GO AWAY!

Public Comments

1. It's a large city. But it certainly could be he.
2. probably but who cares really? i advise you take the tracker off and block your page, youll drive yourself crazy with that crap
3. look, you need to get laid. forget this guy and go post on craigslist under casual encounters W4M What is with these women always trying to build a guy up into a stalker? WTF?
4. try to contact the visitor. i think it would be him and if nt that is one hell of a coincidence. i think whats happened is something has happened at his end whether it be family or work or something. but he still loves you and isnt over you yet. i think you need to get hold of him somehow. email or phone him. even if its not him you still deserve to know why it ended. just my opinion. best of luck!
5. i think it might be him.. from what i read at the start he seems kinda controlling and even tho he broke up with u he still wants to be nosie and wants to no all of ur buisness... send him a message and ask him why he stalks ur page... hope i helped.. Sinead.. xx
6. well i wonder why he ended it? maybe if he is checking up on you to see if you have a bf or something...i mean to spy on you he must really truly still love you. tell you what you should start up a new face book but earase your myspace and on face book put your name but no photo of you. and if you still want the myspace put it as a privacy page. tell me how that all works for ya!
7. could be that he's just curious... with so much of interaction in the beginning, he probably got used to you.. and then. all of a sudden he decided that he wants to bring the *love* to an end... he obviously misses you...and wants to know how you are and what you feel about the 'whole thing.' however, its all HIS fault... so don't look back sweety...he deserves to be punished...let him crave for his dear OLD sweetheart... :D
8. I think most men like to check up on exs. it could be he still loves you and is just checking on you. but i hope love finds you and you are happy again one day.