it really pisses me off when people use the word gay as a substitute for words such as, stupid, weird or gross. i used to say it in elementary school because i got caught up with the slang that people used around me. only a year or two ago, i stopped to think about what i was really saying saying. the real meaning of gay is being happy or being a homosexual. how does it make any sense if i used it to describe something stupid? so from that day i tried using other words instead of gay... it was a lil tricky at first but you get the hang of it. please, i know some of you have incorporated the word gay into your daily vocabulary and some of you might not even realize how often you say it..i understand. but it really doesnt make sense to describe something stupid as "gay"... it is offensive and plus, it makes YOU seem stupid with the lack in your vocabulary. does anyone feel the same way? to JC, yea i know what you mean. there a re a lot of people i know who arent against gay people and use it. it's hard for them to get it out of their vocabulary.